Evgeny Shulman and I have known each other for about 10 years. His book "Is there a mistake in the formula of the world" shook my mind. I was very glad to have the opportunity to work with Evgeny personally, working through different areas of my life.
Evgeny is an unusual coach; his fundamental physics and profound knowledge of psychology allowed him to create an amazingly profound method of working with consciousness. Nevertheless, the work with Evgeny was result-oriented. Within a year we had removed the inner barriers and blocks that prevented me from advancing professionally. I got a job with a team of like-minded people and I have been successfully working there for 4 years now, getting pleasure and meaning from what I do. I consider it great luck for anyone who wants quick and profound changes to meet Evgeny on their way.

"I have reached out to Benjamin a few months ago. My life was a complete mess back then - family, work, wellbeing (or the lack of thereof). I felt emotionally drained, hurt, angry and out of balance. I have tried conventional therapy and self-help books and nothing seemed to help. I was displeased with my spouse, tired of spending afternoons with my toddler, felt overworked and underappreciated by the colleagues.

My social life was completely nonexistent, I felt completely isolated from my friends. A lot of those feelings had very real reasons - I live in a remote location, among people whose mentality is very different from mine, my husband works long hours and is often absent at home, the household chores do lay mostly on me and my toddler son is going through a "terrible twos" stage.

Yet I felt i could do better.

I have known Benjamin since my adolescence and have recently started following him on Facebook. His posts always resonated with me and it felt like his approach to helping people was different, special.

When we started series of our sessions, I was convinced that I would be given a set of clear instructions of To Do and to Not Do, or some easily applicable techniques.
Instead, we started discovering my emotions and feelings. On one hand, the sessions were (and are still) very draining. Who would have thought that concentrating on one's feelings, looking at them, observing them, accepting them could be so difficult?

On the other hand it felt like we didn't actually do much. There was no traditional analyzing and grinding of the thoughts and behavioral patterns - something I was used to from the previous therapists. It felt like nothing was being accomplished, wasn't serious enough, not life changing enough...

Then at some point, the thickness of the hardship of my life experience has subsided. It happened gradually. I just knew it wasn't there at some point.

Slowly I started relying on goodness of life, opening up to positivity, happiness and miracles. And the miracles started happening! Slowly but surely as a confirmation that I am on the right path.

These were not "walking on the water" kind of miracles, but rather small every day revelations - bumping into someone whom you have wanted to meet for a long time by an accident, getting a much-needed advice, being in the right place at the right time, making new meaningful connections, experiencing new things.

The main miracle I am experiencing now is a joy of life, calmness and the lack of anxieties. It is really an incredibly generous gift from above and I am so grateful for it. I am getting aligned with myself and I am truly excited to discover what lays ahead of me on this journey of healing. Thank you, Benjamin."

Evgeny worked with me several times as part of our project.
We are very pleased with Evgeny's qualifications, his warmth and cordiality, the depth of his values, his creative approach and his excellent results. We would gladly recommend Eugene as a professional coach.
His intuition, empathy and resourcefulness are worthy of the highest praise.

I am very grateful that I was able to meet Evgeny, such a great person and master of his profession.
I have been working on myself for many years, attending trainings and consultants, and doing spiritual practices. This has helped me to change a lot in my life for the better. But what began to happen in the sessions with Evgeny was really a great discovery for me. I was filled with a desire to live, joy, and a whole new world became available to me!
My perception changed, gone were the worries and fears that seemed to be part of my character and strongly oppressed.

A sense of joy appeared. Not only in class but also on a life skill level.
My inner changes are very visible to others because they are even on a physiological level. I hear so many compliments, and I feel that I attract interesting people. Circumstances are shaping up in a very fortunate way for me.
In relation to my plans for life, I was in a state of complete powerlessness and lack of motivation. It seemed to me that my desires were completely unrealistic and too ambitious. During the work with Eugene, my state of desolation, apathy and depression disappeared.
I am very happy that already at the third meeting I was able to feel my capabilities and begin to feel the inspiration and joy of the process of movement. I already know that something good is about to open up to me that I didn't even know I had.

Answers come to me when I ask the right questions. But, this is now.
Before my communication with Evgeny Shulman, this was not the case. In the course of our work, after just a few sessions I was able to feel on the inner level what a correctly posed question is. As a rule, the most part of the answer lies in it, and the practice decides the rest. Many things seem to stand up by themselves in a clearly organized system of causes and consequences, thereby including an independent process of favorable development of events. Working with Evgeny requires a lot of effort from both sides. And it's this return that you get, but in triplicate. Thank you, Evgenii, for a wonderful gift, made for yourself and with your own hands, with your incommensurable help!

I will cite here the following case of Evgeny's psychological work with a neurological illness. A 72-year-old man suffered one of the most serious variants of cerebral circulatory disorders (stroke) - in the vertebrobasilar basin. He developed pronounced shakiness and impaired coordination of movements, impaired swallowing. In spite of intensive treatment with the most modern pharmacological agents, biologically active supplements, hirudotherapy, physiotherapy, application of complex homeopathic preparations and methods of traditional Chinese medicine, the patient remained on probe feeding for about three months. Naturally, the patient and people around him were most concerned about the long absence of restoration of the swallowing reflex. Sessions with Evgeny Shulman were based on the method of psychomotor training and visualization, the duration was about 1.5 hours, including breaks for rest of the patient. One day after the second session the patient began to swallow on his own, after which the gastric area was removed with the patient's consent (before that the patient was frightened of this possibility). The first session was conducted one/two weeks before the second (and the last). It is necessary to note the obviously negative attitude of the patient and his wife toward the sessions with the psychologist and the methods of positive attitude. Moreover, after restoration of swallowing, the patient continued to deny the positive effect of sessions and refused to continue the process. The latter clearly points to the positive effect of Eugene's work even in the case when the person does not "believe" in the methods he or she uses (the sessions were conducted at the initiative of the patient's daughter).

About a year and a half ago I decided that I was not cut out for family life. I had everything good in my life: a good job with a good salary, interesting hobbies, friends, a positive attitude and a certain sense of harmony.

But the relationship did not work out. Not at all. There was a feeling that my wife Irina did not understand me and did not want to understand that I was developing, and she was not only not developing herself, but was slowing down my development. There were arguments, scolding, nagging, scandals, tantrums. In general, I decided to leave.

Since I was actively working with Eugeny on my development at the time, I paid a lot of attention to my emotional state, and this whole situation was really knocking me out, I called Shulman. Emotionally, I outlined the situation to him "in all colors" and announced my decision. "I can't take it anymore, the relationship is over, it's time to end it...".

How was I to know at the time that the relationship had not even begun?)
Then Eugene told me one trivial phrase over the phone. I must be grateful that he said it in such a way that in spite of its banality it resonated in me, and later on it helped me to look at many things from a slightly different point of view.

He said to me, "Vyacheslav, of course you have the right to make any decision and act as you see fit. But surely you know that no person comes into your life for no reason: if a person comes into your life, it means at the very least that you need to learn some lesson from it. If you don't, there's a good chance that the situation will repeat itself in the future. and will repeat itself until the lesson is learned. and the sign that you have done so is gratitude - gratitude for the experience, for the lesson. Do you have a chance to come to my session with your wife?"

And we came. I thought, "Here he is going to straighten me out." Or something like that. Yeah, that's about what I thought.

And then something happened. I will not describe exactly what happened during the session, partly because enough time had passed and I had forgotten much, and partly because I still do not understand WHAT and HOW it happened. Of course, no one was straightening anyone's mind. But something definitely happened. And from that moment on, everything changed. More precisely, outwardly, maybe nothing immediately changed, but something happened inside, at a very deep level. And I realized that I needed to work on my relationship. And work began: work on myself, work on relationships. I realized that in a relationship you have to invest yourself, your strength, your soul. And that love is not a random meeting of two lonely hearts, but the result of painstaking work, and that love has not yet existed in my life, but there is a huge chance to come to it...

I understood a lot of things then. Or rather, since then, in the process of working, thinking, communicating.

And I saw that it was possible to develop and grow in our relationship. I realized that I had a lot to learn from my wife and to teach her. And that she knows how to love and love, while I am only on my way to doing so. That we can and should be each other's encouragement, support, comfort, and powerful source of energy.

Now, after a year and a half, we fight sometimes, too. Sometimes we get offended. But now we don't spend as much energy on it. We are learning to listen and hear, and I'm glad to see that we do it), we talk a lot, we love to spend time together, she always meets me from work with a smile on her face and I smile back. We can just stand in silence with our arms around each other - and that's better and more than any words.
And another thing that happened a year later, after that crisis moment: I realized that my wife is the most important thing in my life and that I am ready to live my life together, to grow together, to make mistakes together, to be happy and sad together...

And that I was ready for our love to bear fruit. I used to be afraid to even think about children: afraid of responsibility, of permanence, and who knows what else!

And once I accepted and knew I was ready, by the law of synchronicity, we knew we were having a baby!

Now we are expecting our first child:) Irishka is getting creative - she makes wonderful toys, and she has also completely invented the design of our apartment, where we are renovating!

I enjoy taking care of her. She feels it and takes care of me too. Or rather, she has always done it, and I have learned to appreciate it and reciprocate... And now I can say with confidence - I am happily married! I am happy, and every day I thank God, the universe, and who else can I thank for the fact that I have her!
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Sincerely, Vyacheslav.